I can completely imagine how you felt that day. I must say, it warmed my heart to see your husband's wrong. He sounds like a good one :-) If I were to write the same to my husband, what I'd get would be a list of what I should do (which I have already done) or him telling me I've taken on too much. What I'd love to hear back would be "How can I help?" That is the best answer of all!

Good luck with the overwhelm :-)